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Joe Whittaker's avatar

Happy Memorial day to you as well, Steve. Out of the past, comes the now. Out of death, comes a chance for new life. A day like this is one that usually has me in a quiet, and often sad frame of mind, remembering fallen friends, and facing the memories of war and the ghosts of it.

But today, I have been thinking about our own child, who will be born in the fall, and looking into a very new direction. The day is not sad, it is busy with life and activity.

And, again like you and Jamie, my wife and I are wondering at the unexpected and nevertheless cherished gift of a child in Middle Age. I'm 48, and my wife is 40, but neither of us give a sweet damn about how it "looks" to other people. A version of me from long ago and once upon a time didn't expect to live to see 35.

So to live this long, marry a woman I love, and find myself getting ready to father a new life? The wonder of it leaves me without words.

Every day really is a gift.

And these days are very good antidotes to sad memories, and "the ghosts of the wars of my youth do fade and unresisting vanish in the sunrise, and do not return".

We'll keep you in our prayers for tomorrow. God Bless you both, Joe and Sarah.

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JT Brannigan's avatar

Prayers for your wife and the baby (and you). Our fifth, and youngest child was born when I was thirty-nine and my wife was forty. His siblings were ages thriteen to seven. It was an adjustment, but he has been an incredible blessing for us and his siblings. (He is now twenty-seven.) Carry on! Go with God.

JT

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