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Adrienne McShurley's avatar

Wow, that's a nice and powerful article Steve. I have a few tiny stories of strangers surprising me and being unexpectedly kind which, each time, made me remember that there can be good in people. It's funny because it's always when I'm not looking for it, sorta like how you're saying not to obsess over happiness because it's just obsessing over yourself. I find that when I'm not thinking of what other people can do for me, there's a plot twist and someone else gets me out of a jam. Like one time I was shopping for a book for my sister for Christmas and it was pretty expensive. I was worrying it would end up being the only present I could afford for her when out of the blue, as I anxiously brought it to the counter, the cashier told me the lady in front had already paid for whatever I was going to purchase. It was such a relief and surprise, I still wish I could thank that lady to this day!

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Patrick Nugent's avatar

Hi Steve. Great article. What does becoming useful mean for me? A few thoughts. Being a mentor, whether formally or informally. I have neither an advanced degree or recognition as an author, nor is it likely that I ever be considered a visionary. But, I have many years of experience as an engineer. I work with the junior staff to give them the insights from years of learning how things are designed and built. Yes, they come into the workforce with more computer skills than I will ever have, but they need someone who can help them transition from the theoretical of the classroom to the practical of the design team. It's not just teaching them how I would solve a particular challenge, it's asking questions, helping them to develop their own skills and confidence to become a task leader, a project manager, and more. Having a reputation of not only being knowledgeable but also willing to share it with others.

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