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Debby Rust's avatar

Steve,

Having read your post a couple of times, I just want to say....there isn't a person alive today that wouldn't see a part of themselves in your words if they were honest.

In all the years I've followed you, and all of your posts I've read, this stands out as a testament to all that is the human condition.

"To thine own self be true".

The courage it takes to do that is not found in the vast majority of people who, even within family circles, put on a show to impress.

You haven't lost anything, Steve.

Healing is on the way.

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Gary Huber's avatar

I'm very sorry to hear that, Steve. These things usually do not reverse themselves. It is now a new reality. Aside from the practicalities, it will take some time to get used to the new reality. In Solzhenitsyn's Gulag Archipelago, he talks about when the inevitable finally happens. The knock on the door comes in the middle of the night, from that point on there's no going back, things will never be the same, and it's the beginning of a new reality. I'll try to find that passage; not that it will necessarily cheer you up. Been there, done that.

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